Here we go! My first story:

Hello, Hello!

This is my first post, and I am very excited! To be honest, this won’t be the most profound post since I just decided to write this about ten seconds ago. However, I really do want to get something out on my website, so I figured I would put together something quick!

So, what is this Life Coaching stuff? Life Coaching is an amazing resource to focus on your present moment, get unstuck in life, and get you back to being the awesome person that you are. My goal is to to give idle women permission to Empower themselves by guiding them to find their Identity that was either never discovered or lost through trauma or other adverse life experiences; and Loving that identity so they may Confidently guide themselves to success spiritually, career wise, holistically and/or via relationships.

Outside of academics, I have a lot of personal life experience of finding my own identity and rising above trauma. I believe each individual strives for Love and Happiness (universal goals), but sometimes our lack of confidence, unmet needs and anxiety hinder us from exploring our personal "super power." Every person has a super power that will make the world better, and I want to help you find that!

So my story to finding my Super Power is pretty heavy, deep, layered, and I am still personally working through some things. However, if you would have seen me about a year and a half ago, I would be pretty much unrecognizable. For now, I will give you an excerpt on me presently:

I am an Empowered Single Mom who found her Super Power by leaving an extremely toxic and abusive relationship. The abuse ranged from verbal to sexual to physical— Every category of abuse. I lived with this person for 7 years and was married to them for a year. My saving grace was my son. Instability and toxicity have been two major themes in my life, and I promised myself when I had a child, I would not provide that kind of environment. When I began to see the abuse bleed from just me to my son, I decided to leave. Everything on paper describing my situation predicted that I would fall flat on my face and fail. However, I knew I needed to do something, because the life of myself and my son were in danger. As soon as I left, things in my life began to fall into place. All the cards that told me I would fail soon disappeared. Because of this experience, I truly believe the key to Happiness is discovering who you are (your superpower) and being okay with it. Then loving and trusting your gut so much you will follow it, no matter what toxic static or loud barking is telling you— because you love yourself enough to go through struggle, see your strength and resilience, then rise above and become your best self. I still have many walls I need to work through, but I am truly confident that my life is only getting better from here. I have never loved myself and my life as much as I do now. It is a wonderful and irreplaceable feeling to feel content with your life. I am so happy to be here, and I have a passion to help others find their way. You deserve to be happy, just like anyone else.

—Much love!